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Everything You Need To Know About Different Types Of Lube

Everything You Need To Know About Different Types Of Lube

Should it be water-based or oil? 
Do I need a numbing, warming or edible one? 
Is natural better than organic? 
What am I talking about? 

If you said “lube,” you guessed it right! 

There are many types of lube or personal lubricants in the market, but when you are looking for that extra “wetness” in bed, getting your hands on the right type of lube can make all the difference.

In this post, I’ll explain what the different types of lube are and how to select the best lubricant for your needs. I’ll also explain which ingredients to avoid...


Tips on how to stay present during sex

Tips on how to stay present during sex

It is so easy to get distracted when you are being intimate. Things that can distract you can range from the temperature being too hot or too cold, or maybe the thought that the kids coming down the stairs is taking over your mind. Maybe you are thinking about your phone that just pinged, or a sound you heard outside the bedroom. It could be that your day was so busy and that you can’t get the list of things you still need to do, off of your mind. These thoughts can really take away from intimacy and...


5 Ways To Get Your Wife To Want More Sex

5 Ways To Get Your Wife To Want More Sex

I am writing this article from my years of experiences in my marriage and things that I did that completely changed Amy’s and my relationship. I understand there is not a “one size fits all” that works for everyone, but if you implement these things, I promise you your marriage and sex life change in a good way. I also acknowledge that this article is similar to other articles and podcasts we have done, but as men, it takes a long time for us to “get” things. 😉

1. Communicate and connect emotionally with your wife:

A...


The Clitoris: They "KEY" To Unlocking Female Pleasure!

The Clitoris: They "KEY" To Unlocking Female Pleasure!

interview with Cindy Sharkey: Podcast for Pleasure, Sept 2021.


Sometimes as women we feel like we need permission for pleasure.

I’ve been working as a nurse for 35 years, and I’ve worked...


Just What Is Intimacy?

Just What Is Intimacy?

Reposted and used with permission from Awesome Marriage

Often when I am talking with couples they use the words “intimacy” and “sex” interchangeably.  In the past as a counselor, I have done the same thing. The problem is that “intimacy” and “sex” are not the same thing and I needed to know how to communicate that distinction clearly if I was to expect couples to understand the differences. 

Intimacy can certainly lead to sex but it can stand on its own as something that draws a couple closer together. Communication can be intimate. Praying together can be...