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How To Turn Your Spouse On

How To Turn Your Spouse On

Over time, many couples see their sexual intimacy and connection in the bedroom dwindle, which is very sad. Sex should be like riding a bike, practicing an instrument or anything else we desire to get good at… it should be one of those areas where the more we practice it, learn about it, and learn about each other, the better we should get at it and the more satisfying it should be! We have been married for over 20 years...


Everything You Need To Know About Different Types Of Lube

Everything You Need To Know About Different Types Of Lube

Should it be water-based or oil? 
Do I need a numbing, warming or edible one? 
Is natural better than organic? 
What am I talking about? 

If you said “lube,” you guessed it right! 

There are many types of lube or personal lubricants in the market, but when you are looking for that extra “wetness” in bed, getting your hands on the right type of lube can make all the difference.

In this post, I’ll explain what the different types of lube are and how to select the best lubricant for your needs. I’ll also explain which ingredients to avoid...


5 Ways To Get Your Wife To Want More Sex

5 Ways To Get Your Wife To Want More Sex

I am writing this article from my years of experiences in my marriage and things that I did that completely changed Amy’s and my relationship. I understand there is not a “one size fits all” that works for everyone, but if you implement these things, I promise you your marriage and sex life change in a good way. I also acknowledge that this article is similar to other articles and podcasts we have done, but as men, it takes a long time for us to “get” things. 😉

1. Communicate and connect emotionally with your wife:

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Just What Is Intimacy?

Just What Is Intimacy?

Reposted and used with permission from Awesome Marriage

Often when I am talking with couples they use the words “intimacy” and “sex” interchangeably.  In the past as a counselor, I have done the same thing. The problem is that “intimacy” and “sex” are not the same thing and I needed to know how to communicate that distinction clearly if I was to expect couples to understand the differences. 

Intimacy can certainly lead to sex but it can stand on its own as something that draws a couple closer together. Communication can be intimate. Praying together can be...