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How To Turn Your Spouse On

How To Turn Your Spouse On

Over time, many couples see their sexual intimacy and connection in the bedroom dwindle, which is very sad. Sex should be like riding a bike, practicing an instrument or anything else we desire to get good at… it should be one of those areas where the more we practice it, learn about it, and learn about each other, the better we should get at it and the more satisfying it should be! We have been married for over 20 years...


Tips on how to stay present during sex

Tips on how to stay present during sex

It is so easy to get distracted when you are being intimate. Things that can distract you can range from the temperature being too hot or too cold, or maybe the thought that the kids coming down the stairs is taking over your mind. Maybe you are thinking about your phone that just pinged, or a sound you heard outside the bedroom. It could be that your day was so busy and that you can’t get the list of things you still need to do, off of your mind. These thoughts can really take away from intimacy and...


The Benefits of Having Sex More Frequently

The Benefits of Having Sex More Frequently

There are so many positive impacts of having more frequent sex. More frequency in sexual activity can have such positive benefits such as lower blood pressure, reduced stress, better overall intimacy both emotionally and physically, and even lower divorce rates among couples having more intimacy. There is no magic number of course, when it comes to the ideal sexual intimacy… but there are MANY benefits from having more sexual intimacy!

Physical Benefits of Increased Sexual Intimacy

Better shape physically: Because sex is a form of exercise, sexual activity is equal to moderate physical activities...


From Boring To Soaring Sex... and Intimacy

From Boring To Soaring Sex... and Intimacy

Podcast episode 34 Ultimate Intimacy with Monica Tanner

When I was 12 years old, my parents got a divorce and I became immediately obsessed with what makes a marriage strong and lasting.

As a 12 year old, I literally used to go around and observe my friend’s parents who were married and I was like “okay what are the secrets here? What keeps a couple strong and lasting in marriage?”

I studied it in college, sociology and child development and family studies with the intention of of going into social work and really working with couples and...


25 Ways To Please Your Wife IN & Out Of The Bedroom

25 Ways To Please Your Wife IN & Out Of The Bedroom

Your wife… what would you do without her?

She runs the house, balances so many things at home, takes care of the kids most likely all day, and she probable never gets a day off ever right? So husbands, maybe it is time that you show her some REAL appreciation and pick some of these ideas to do for her to show her how grateful you really are! And why just pick a couple? A lot of these ideas can be done all the time!

After doing some serious polling on our social media page, we have...